禮儀好語021講
陳豪正在北京的ABC美國公司事件,好籍華人Mary分開後,他立即結識了公司新往的美國同事Amy。看,他們正在喝下戰書茶。
(Office ambience)
C: Hi, Amy. 你在這兒太好了。我正好有個題目请求教你。
A: What is it?
C: 我開端正在那女工做以來,結識了良多人,到哪兒都会掽上,但卻記不住他們的名字。
A: I have a simple way to remember names.
C: 那你快教教我,甚麼好办法。
A: I have an acronym that helps me.
C: 那是什麼?
A: An acronym is an abbreviation formed by using the first letter of words in a phrase or name.
C: 我曉得了,就是几個單詞的英文尾寫字母的縮寫。
A: The acronym I use to remember names is FACE. F stands for focus。 您第一次睹到一小我俬傢,起重要留心他的名字。
C:說起來輕易,可我就是做不到。我總唸著上里該說點兒什麼。那你再說,翻譯,A代表什麼呢?
A: The "A" is for ask. Repeat the name in the form of a question. For example, if you are introduced to Bill, 你就能夠問, "Bill?"
C: 聽起來不偶異嗎?
A: 诚然不了. It is natural that you would want to verify the name and make sure you heard correctly. 越是不經常应用的名字,便越應噹問清楚。
C:你說得確切有道理。别人讓我反復自己的名字,是渴望不會叫錯,我會觉得別人這樣做是尊重我。那C呢?
A: The "C" is for comment. Make a comment about the person's name - a comment that connects the name to someone or something that you can recall later.
C: 你是讲如果有人叫Bill,我就可以夠說"Bill? As in President Bill Clinton?"
A: 你實是一面就通。It is also a conversation starter so now you see why you don't need to worry about what to say next. It comes naturally.
C: 對呀。如許接下來就有話題了。那最后一個字母E呢?
M:"E" stands for employment. Employ means to use the name in conversation with the person. Using the name helps you remember it.
C:出錯。有的時刻多叫僟回便記著了,並且借能讓别人感应你重视他。Amy,你能不能再反復一下FACE的用法。
A:I am happy to repeat it. First you focus and think only of the other person's name. Next you ask or repeat the name in the form of a question. Then you make a comment about the name. Finally you employ or use the name while you are speaking with the person.
C: Thank you. 来日凌晨我刚好有一個事情宴會,到時辰一定要嘗嘗這個訣竅。
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